tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-179007032024-03-13T01:41:28.239-04:00Richard's RamblingsThoughts on miscellaneous topics as they occur to me
<br>- thus "Ramblings."RSDicksonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15226921821180759333noreply@blogger.comBlogger61125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17900703.post-73137091649050900082012-10-01T20:01:00.001-04:002012-10-01T20:03:49.854-04:00 I Made It<div><p>I waited almost too late, but I made it.</p>
<p>It was beginning to get dark and it's been drizzling and raining most of the day.</p>
<p>The vines and underbrush had grown up and it was a bit difficult to recognize the exact spot. Fortunately, the grass at the edge of the road had been mown so I didn't have to deal with that.</p>
<p>But, with a little searching, there it was - the little white cross I nailed to the tree on the first anniversary.</p>
<p>It's been four years.</p>
<p>How do I feel? A bit frustrated with myself for waiting so late in the day. A little bit lonely (revisiting those places and memories has that affect on me). A little like there's something missing.</p>
<p>Although love has once again become a part of my life, and I know that someone else very special cares for me, she is not forgotten.</p>
<p>Once again:</p>
<p>In Memoriam... Donna Dickson, December 18, 1961- October 1, 2008</p>
</div>RSDicksonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15226921821180759333noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17900703.post-21243957582588486392012-09-30T17:31:00.001-04:002012-09-30T17:31:40.104-04:00Treading an older path<div><p>The last day of September, 2012. Also, a few days into my vacation.</p>
<p>For many years Donna and I would travel to Virginia for our fall vacation. In fact, since her death, I have continued going, usually in October -- it's such a wonderful time of year for that part of the country with the fall leaves. In planning my vacation this year, I had actually anticipated going up.</p>
<p>It was also pertinent that tomorrow marks the 4 year anniversary of her death.</p>
<p>However, for several reasons, I had chosen to stay home this year. (Perhaps tomorrow I will visit the accident site.)</p>
<p>Now, with the decision to stay home comes the decision of where to attend church. In my mind, the first choices were between First Baptist Church of Toccoa, GA, a people who had graciously welcomed us during some difficult days, and Hill Street Baptist Church, also in Toccoa, another people who had welcomed us and allowed me to serve with them on a part-time basis with them during that same period.</p>
<p>I also was considering a brief run to some mountains after church since there was to be no Virginia in my fall. However, to attend church in Toccoa and then run to the mountains meant leaving Abby at home...</p>
<p>Then, another solution occurred to me. I could attend the contemporary worship service here in Lavonia at the First Baptist Church. That would allow me to return home after the service, change clothes, get Abby, and had to the mountains. Besides I could see how a contemporary services was done -- research.</p>
<p>As this morning approached, the choices waged war in my mind -- what would I do?</p>
<p>As I got into the car, cranked the engines, and pulled out of the driveway, I made my choice...I would tread an older path. I decided to attend Hill Street.</p>
<p>I arrived a couple of minutes late and slipped into the back pew. Unfortunately, it is a smaller church and with the pastor (interestingly, that came up as 'predator' in this swipe entry method) at the front, it was not possible to arrive unnoticed. With the regular music leader out, I was even asked to lead the next hymn.</p>
<p>After the service it was good to be greeted by many familiar folks and to spend some time talking with long-time pastor, Paul Garrison.</p>
<p>Now, what about the mountains? Another choice...</p>
<p>I drove from the parking lot so that I could head in the direction of the North Georgia mountains, but as I arrived as the decision intersection, I turned right toward South Carolina. As I headed toward Westminster, I wasn't sure I would see mountains, but I knew it would involve taking a newer path. It was refreshing. It didn't take long and I was able to return home to Abby and some lunch sooner. No mountains, but a senior adult trip in a few weeks (maybe even a jaunt with Jani) will take care of that.</p>
<p>All in all, it's been a good day. I've taken a new path and an old path.</p>
<p>Blessings,<br>
Richard</p>
</div>RSDicksonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15226921821180759333noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17900703.post-35395943201762476402012-09-28T17:54:00.001-04:002012-09-28T17:54:41.365-04:00New Experiences<div><p>Well, the second day off my vacation (actually, yesterday was my usual day off).</p>
<p>Today, besides resting and taking - and playing games on my tablet - I had a couple of new experiences.</p>
<p>1. I cooked cornbread. Now mind you that I'm not fond of that stuff people usually call cornbread, that cake like substance. No, this is honest to goodness cornbread like my mother makes. A simple concoction of cornmeal, flour, and water dropped down in hot grease or oil and fried in little things that resemble pancakes. I admit they weren't the greatest, but they were pretty good for my first ones.</p>
<p>2. I steamed my floor. I admit that living alone I don't worry too much about my floors, but the kitchen and bathroom floors were needing some definite attention. So, today, I cleared most of those floors, then swept them. Afterwards, I pulled out and assembled the steam floor mop I bought yesterday. It was kind of cool. It still required some labor, but the clean up afterwards was not too bad.</p>
<p>In addition to my two brand new experiences, I have also washed the bed sheets.</p>
<p>Finally, in the category of new experiences, I am working on using this finger slide method of typing on my tablet. Since the keyboard is very much slower than a traditional computer keyboard, it is a much faster way to type. The proof is in this blog post. I am currently using the blogger app to do this post, and I can assure you that it would have been much more difficult to type this much by one- finger presses on the little pop-up keyboard.</p>
<p>Well, I need to get the sheets back on the beds, the stuff back onto the kitchen and bathrooms, and see what other 'work' I need to do on this 2nd day of vacation so I can continue to enjoy my rest and relaxation.</p>
<p>Blessings!<br>
Richard</p>
</div>RSDicksonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15226921821180759333noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17900703.post-31829628029894374452012-09-27T23:57:00.001-04:002012-09-27T23:57:47.816-04:00Vacation 2012<div><p>OK, I am officially on vacation.</p>
<p>Now, I am torn. One part of me wants to take this time to just relax and refresh.</p>
<p>Another part of me wants to get some of those many things that I've either haven't had time for or have just been putting off until later.</p>
<p>Hopefully, in the best interest of all (of me, that is), I will be able to do some of both.</p>
<p>Note that blogging has been one of the things that has been neglected.</p>
<p>Well, to accomplish either of my goals I'll need to get some rest, so I better close for now and prepare for bed.</p>
<p>Goodnight and blessings to you!</p>
</div>RSDicksonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15226921821180759333noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17900703.post-29888073565293065462011-01-24T11:21:00.006-05:002011-01-24T11:51:36.244-05:00To Live with Death in MindThis morning as I backed out of my drive and drove away to work, I glanced over at my house. My mind jumped instantly to the thought, "I wonder what Donna was thinking about as she drove away from the house on that last day." (For those who do not know me or who have not read this blog before, my late wife, Donna, died in a automobile accident in 2008.)<br /><br />My mind turned to contemplation. First the old: do we live for the moment or do we live in the moment?<br /><br />Then, I started wondering: if we knew that we would die in the next few minutes, hours, or days, what would we spend time thinking about. Would we dwell on hurt, disappointment, anger, jealousy, and pain? Would we live in the past, whether sad or joyful? Would we continue to allow our frustrations to dominate us?<br /><br />Or...would we notice the beauty around us? Would we relish this moment? Would we contemplate love and goodness?<br /><br />I actually tried some of this on my drive in to work. I noticed the water-color appearance of the clouds against the sky, even the stark crispness of leafless trees etched against that same sky. Then, there were the evergreens holding on to their needles in contrast to their naked neighbors. And, of course, I had to be grateful that the sun was not in my eyes! It actually became a more pleasant drive.<br /><br />Seems to me the scripture even speaks to this:<br /><br /><span style="font-style:italic;">Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things.</span> (Philippians 4:8 KJV)<br /><br />Wow! So, dying or not, our thoughts should be consumed with the good stuff of life and not bogged down with the bad.<br /><br />Now, I'm not sure that our thoughts will change how we die, but I am convinced that our thoughts can change how we live. Can you imagine the possibilities?RSDicksonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15226921821180759333noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17900703.post-2645488182045360342010-10-01T22:25:00.001-04:002010-10-01T22:27:54.292-04:00Catharsis and PrayerShe was not there, but I was.<br /><br />11:30 a.m., the time on her death certificate, two years ago on October 1, 2008.<br /><br />Because of a wedding in the family, I was able to visit the cemetery in Bluefield, VA, on this anniversary of her death. Before arriving, I was not sure what my emotions, my thoughts, would be. But, here I was...<br /><br />First, cleaning off the marker and throwing away the old flowers: both ours and her mom's. There were no flowers at our site, just a pot full of water and old styrofoam - it had been a while since I had been able to come.<br /><br />Then, the new flowers came out - her mom's first, then her's.<br /><br />During this process there was talk, obviously one-sided. And, of course, I knew she was not there. In fact, I don't believe she could even hear what I was saying. God is so good that I know in my heart that He shields her from every hint of the pain and sorrow that dogged her life here on earth. Perhaps if there was something good, He would share it, but I feel that she doesn't know of or feel even my pain, and that is very good!!<br /><br />But, I talked. I talked about the wedding, about Abby, about me. Whatever came to mind, I just talked.<br /><br />At times, knowing that only God could truly hear the words, the feelings, the pain, the talk shifted into prayer.<br /><br />I stayed longer this time, partially because I wanted to be there at that exact moment that marked the time of her earthly departure, but also because the talk came easily. And, even the quietness and solitude felt good.<br /><br />Near the end of my visit, I just sat on the nearby statuary (a statue of our Lord kneeling and praying in the Garden of Gethsemane before His own trial and death), and just contemplated.<br /><br />It occurred to me that what I was doing wasn't solving any of the worlds problems; it wasn't even solving any of mine. But, then I thought...most of those problems are really not that important after all - perspective!<br /><br />It was a good time! Catharsis and prayer! Amen!RSDicksonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15226921821180759333noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17900703.post-29324591031474856112009-12-26T01:03:00.002-05:002009-12-26T01:05:47.794-05:00Thoughts on Christmas 2009Christmas has been interesting this year.<br /><br />At Thanksgiving my hotwater heater leaked and created a small flood in my garage. One of the items I had to remove was a Christmas tree covered with a red plastic bag tree cover. When I uncovered it, I discovered one of Donna's Charlie Brown trees with the lights still on it. So, this year I have a Christmas tree, in the front window no less with lights - no angel, no star, no decorations - but a tree with lights. (I did put a wreath on the door and a small manger scene just inside the front door.)<br /><br />After the Christmas Eve Service at <a href="http://www.fbcjefferson.org">First Baptist Church of Jefferson, GA</a>, I had a 2-plus hour night-time drive to my parent's home. Along the way my most interesting thought was a feeling that I was leaving Donna at home in the bed while I went to my parent's for Christmas - yes, odd. Perhaps it reminded me of the several months when I would leave her at home traveling to Sandersville for my Interim Associate Pastor position at Sisters Baptist Church there. Perhaps it came because I was not going to be able to go to Virginia this Christmas to visit her grave. Whatever the reason, it was a feeling I had.<br /><br />Christmas morning after getting up and somewhere around a breakfast of sausage, toast, and grits, and opening our presents to each other, I discovered Hedgehog Launch at Shockwave.com. So...I wasted a lot of time launching hedgehogs. Just wish it was as easy to make money - I got up to over $4 million - nice dreaming.<br /><br />At lunch we headed over to my sister's house to eat. It was she and her husband, their three daughters and two sons-in-law, plus me and our parents. After a brief visit and some looking at their presents, the tables were set up and set and we began to eat. Suddenly we were interupted by the news that the house one my nieces lived in had been broken into and some items were apparently stolen (of greater importance to my niece, the cat was missing).<br /><br />Suddenly the meal was hurried, gifts were quickly exchanged as my niece and her dad prepared for a quick trip to Atlanta to see the damage and do what they could to secure the property. We discovered somewhere along the way that the thieves had apparently been arrested and perhaps some items recovered. Later when they returned, they reported that they couldn't do much until tomorrow when the officers who were investigating this crime were back on duty. Some items were still missing, but we are hoping that they can be recovered. Oh yes, the cat was found and is OK.<br /><br />I wish for all of you a Joyous Christmas (yes, the first day of Christmas is past, but we have 11 more) and a Blessed New Year!<br /><br />Christmas has definitely been different and interesting this year.<br /><br />RichardRSDicksonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15226921821180759333noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17900703.post-89660432206152492812009-04-01T11:51:00.000-04:002009-04-01T11:51:47.591-04:00In Memoriam: Donna DicksonToday is the 6 month anniversary of Donna's passing from this life through to that blessed hope and promise of life that never ends.<br /><br />On October 1, 2008 at 11:30 a.m. (according to the death certificate), Donna lost control of the car she was driving, hit a tree, and passed from this life of pain and trial.<br /><br />I know that her current life is far, far better than this one ever was, even on its best day, so I would not for the life of me wish that she was back. But, I do miss her!<br /><br />Perhaps it fits during these days of Lent as we evaluate our lives in the light of Christ's suffering, sacrifice, and death for us and our sin. Through all of this life's joys and sorrows, we can trust ourselves to Him because of the hope that bursts through the open door of the tomb - He lives! He lives! And, because He lives, so shall we.<br /><br />The life holds no promise of tomorrow (or even of this afternoon). It is only in Christ that we have the promise of tomorrow.<br /><br />Blessings,<br />Richard<br /><br /><center>In Memoriam:<br><br />Donna C. Dickson<br><br />December 18, 1961 - October 1, 2008</center>RSDicksonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15226921821180759333noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17900703.post-51451713256974241892009-02-13T00:23:00.001-05:002009-02-13T00:25:28.781-05:00Questions and Answers - ReplyThis is a reply (I can see an ongoing discussion and it might be interesting to see it take place across our two blogs) to Tim Trussell-Smith's response to a question I asked of him which can be found at:<br /><a href="http://checkaprilandtim.blogspot.com/2009_02_01_archive.html#3821127761233783141">Checking In: Questions and Answers</a>.<br /><br />Tim,<br />You are a sharp one! Yes, the question was actually based on something I ran across as I perused the First Parish Church of Dorchester, Unitarian Universalist website that you linked to. I quote:<br /><br /><blockquote>Unitarian Universalism is a religion in which each church member has a right to state honest feelings without being constrained by any dogma. Unitarianism, which evolved from the Puritan tradition, taught a reasoned exploration of religious truth and rejected Trinitarian Christianity. Universalism rejected the harsh Calvinist beliefs that humans are depraved and alienated from God, and taught that God's love for creation is unconditional and that no one is separated from this all-conquering Love. The two denominations merged in 1961 to form the Unitarian Universalist Association.<br /><br />As Unitarian Universalists we believe we are free to work out our own theological beliefs using a well-disciplined search for truth.</blockquote><br /><br />I noticed, of course, right away, the items that UU rejects: trinitarian christianity (looks like a rejection of Jesus as God) and "harsh Calvinist beliefs ..." (looks like a straw man for rejection of Scripture as inspired text). Then, it goes on to speak about a "well-disciplined search for truth."<br /><br />To my mind to reject the possibility of these 2 being true has already hampered the search for truth. Therefore if the UU is in reality searching for truth and arrives at the conclusion that Jesus is in fact God and that Scripture is in fact the inspired Word of God, then he is either forced by that original rejection to reject the truth he has found or to reject the rejection of that truth and thereby reject the beliefs that he started with.<br /><br />This is the point behind the original question as you so astutely observed.<br /><br />With great love,<br />Uncle RichardRSDicksonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15226921821180759333noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17900703.post-44482328782687476722009-01-03T16:25:00.003-05:002009-01-03T17:11:39.866-05:00First VisitToday, December 31, 2008, the last day of the last year of her life, I visited the cemetery. Technically not the first time, but the first time since our trip up for her burial.<br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjj_T59Xkyam_UvFFXymhk3SZHxQOrR6ZBuEKRQtTaF3s70OZ4BJV3GbiwQErCTiXY3VUaSJf_6x_6XfUupRdp5rA8i4RQeLkgEiNbYsD_pes0nDy_pL-AM3cl-FdfT1k1qH85mvQ/s1600-h/STA70681.JPG"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 150px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjj_T59Xkyam_UvFFXymhk3SZHxQOrR6ZBuEKRQtTaF3s70OZ4BJV3GbiwQErCTiXY3VUaSJf_6x_6XfUupRdp5rA8i4RQeLkgEiNbYsD_pes0nDy_pL-AM3cl-FdfT1k1qH85mvQ/s320/STA70681.JPG" border="0" alt="Grandview Memory Gardens as seen from Dickson plot"id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5287186908469720466" /></a>Grandview Memory Gardens is a beautiful cemetery located in Bluefield, Virginia. This is where her mother is buried. We have been visiting together almost every year since her mother's death. Next to her mother are her grandmother's and grandfather's remains. I suppose for these generations, Grandview has replaced the family cemetery.<br /><br />In the fall, the gently sloping hills of Grandview do reveal a grand view of beautifully colored trees and the mountains just over the hilltop. As I said earlier, it is a beautiful cemetery.<br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjaluIHHt9vMdS0FrgUmVl-amSz0AORcOORYjTOsX0UNv7fQWDrDuTTWV6J7npteNGo5NXTLmvOICLPu-ywpCXesbRHPg5Yb3cBNBRgZvb5JCetI94OMxIX0YTjnsrAFgo5DbV_bA/s1600-h/STA70684.JPG"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 150px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjaluIHHt9vMdS0FrgUmVl-amSz0AORcOORYjTOsX0UNv7fQWDrDuTTWV6J7npteNGo5NXTLmvOICLPu-ywpCXesbRHPg5Yb3cBNBRgZvb5JCetI94OMxIX0YTjnsrAFgo5DbV_bA/s320/STA70684.JPG" border="0" alt="Donna Dickson's body laid to rest at the Jesus in the Garden of Gethsemane monument"id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5287187698994934946" /></a>Donna is buried just below the "Jesus in the Garden of Gethsemane" monument, slightly to the left. Next to her is a spot reserved for me. I had wondered if I would feel unusual seeing my name on a grave marker, but it wasn't awkward at all.<br /><br />One of the reasons that I had delayed coming back was the marker. I thought I had understood that the marker would be in place 6-8 weeks after the burial. However, the reality it was 6-8 weeks after the final payment. So, instead of coming at Thanksgiving, I was visiting at year's end.<br /><br />I wasn't even sure the marker was in place, but I had some vacation time that I needed to take, and I just felt like I needed to visit. It has been almost 3 months since we were here.<br /><br />Well, it was chilly, very windy day - it felt cold with snow flurries and a little accumulation. In fact, I stopped by Wal-Mart on the way to purchase a pair of gloves and an insulated, pull-over cap which proved to be a very good choice. In just a few minutes I was at the cemetery. After parking the car, I left Abby in the car to first check it all out.<br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhcBb6EihBwnpEv5-JrPdHvXYdzHOQ10HWtxGhVrE6mCFNecuUnB5KkdcSqKmLJtkcEQamlEBbtDm54RAczRRxur35Yx6PVf8K9NQolL7FUcNu4dKUDYaoEu9vhlj1gyvQZrktN9Q/s1600-h/STA70691.JPG"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 150px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhcBb6EihBwnpEv5-JrPdHvXYdzHOQ10HWtxGhVrE6mCFNecuUnB5KkdcSqKmLJtkcEQamlEBbtDm54RAczRRxur35Yx6PVf8K9NQolL7FUcNu4dKUDYaoEu9vhlj1gyvQZrktN9Q/s320/STA70691.JPG" border="0" alt="Richard & Donna Dickson's marker placed at Donna's resting place"id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5287188604981520002" /></a>As I approached our plot, I noticed what looked like the same flower arrangement we had left on the day after her burial. Then I noticed that the new marker was in place. For a marker it looked good, just like I had ordered.<br /><br />After checking out our plot and Donna's grave, I went over to check on her mother's spot. There I pulled out the old flowers and headed to the garbage to throw them away. Then I went back to the car to get the flowers that I had brought to place on both of the graves.<br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhj4-YZxqGDkNtI1mBWmFb65OQxHpK4vRQNfLLV_s0OxM4F8JQhvXuVc9L4ErXcCowD4emtq6f5qVIn4dZXq-5HCVJuPfVRhaU2Yo6BlvUFMD2eu1EpbiRJwDe7oVzr9di_K5E_2A/s1600-h/STA70687.JPG"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 150px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhj4-YZxqGDkNtI1mBWmFb65OQxHpK4vRQNfLLV_s0OxM4F8JQhvXuVc9L4ErXcCowD4emtq6f5qVIn4dZXq-5HCVJuPfVRhaU2Yo6BlvUFMD2eu1EpbiRJwDe7oVzr9di_K5E_2A/s320/STA70687.JPG" border="0" alt="Grave marker for Mary Finger, Donna's mother"id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5287191171929834066" /></a>I had originally thought both arrangements were the same, but as I carried them, I realized that one had roses and the other carnations. You can guess which one Donna got - obviously the roses. After placing the flowers in her vase, I went and placed the flowers for her mother.<br /><br />Then it was back to the car to get the camera. We have over the years made a habit of recording each visit with pictures of the flowers. It was different, of course, this year since Donna had not made the arrangements. And, although I am so very grateful to the florist who prepared them and gave me a good price on two, I noted that they just were not Donna's arrangments.<br /><br />Next, it was back to the car to get Abby so she could visit.<br /><br />Now, I realize that the person who was and is Donna is not buried in that cold hillside. What is there is only the physical shell that she inhabited while living on this earth. This was made so obvious at the Bluefield funeral home, when Abby was allowed to visit inside and I held her over her "mommy." There was no recognition at all. Even without scriptural theology and biblical knowledge, this small creature knew the truth that so many of us would deny: Donna was not present in that casket.<br /><br />But, I also realized that in this place is the only physical representation that I have of the one that I loved and cared for (who also cared for me) for over 25 years.<br /><br />So, Abby's visit was true to form. She was far more interested in exploring this territory and finding interesting things to put into her mouth than in "visiting." So, it wasn't long before we headed back to the car.<br /><br />However, I was finding it very difficult to leave. So, I went back a final time. I was getting a lot of exercise - these ARE hills.<br /><br />Each time, I went to the grave, I talked to "her." I wasn't sure I would be able to do this, as I am pretty certain that she is shielded from the hurts and pains of this life - that her attention is focused on the One who gave His life for her, and I am very, very OK with that. But, especially on this final trip to the grave, I did talk. I figured that God was listening - He is One who is responsible for my care - and that He would share anything that He figured was important with her. So, I talked and as I talked the tears came...again.<br /><br />Finally, I knew that I would have to leave. So, I bid my adieu. With words that I can only be sure God heard, I told her that I loved her and that I missed her.<br /><br />Even, as I type this (in a word processor since I don't have internet access at this moment), my eyes are moist. I don't know how long it will be before I can make it back to Bluefield to visit her gravesite. I am so grateful to her cousins, Jim and Susan, who are hosting me on this trip. Together, we will celebrate the New Year tomorrow. But, Donna is not here with me. She would have enjoyed the snow and the visit with family, but she can't.<br /><br />I miss her!<br /><br />I wasn't sure of the feelings I would have, but it was what I wanted and needed to do. It was not difficult, but it was not easy.<br /><br />But, I made my first visit!<br /><br />RichardRSDicksonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15226921821180759333noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17900703.post-91929454212137455972008-12-29T18:23:00.000-05:002008-12-29T18:23:48.141-05:00ChristmasAfter the Christmas Eve service at <a href="http://fbcjefferson.org">First Baptist Church, Jefferson, Georgia</a>, Abby and I drove down to my parent's house for Christmas. (For thoughts on the Christmas Eve service see <a href="http://musicmusings-rsd.blogspot.com/2008/12/sharing-light.html">http://musicmusings-rsd.blogspot.com/2008/12/sharing-light.html</a>.)<br /><br />The next day, Christmas Day, when I got up I dressed for the day. It had been indicated that we didn't need to be late in arriving at my sister's house as we were at Thanksgiving, so I was going to be ready. We did take some time to open our gifts to each other.<br /><br />I was ready, but we were still later than planned, although still in plenty of time for the meal. In fact, my brother-in-law had yet to put the turkey in to fry when we arrived.<br /><br />All of the family was there. Actually, I qualify this by saying that Donna was the only one who was not there. Of course, the Trussell's might have added Betty and Everett to that list of those not gathered for the celebration.<br /><br />The food was very good. Carol (and Kenny) did an excellent job with the food preparation. Then there were gifts to open. Most were exchanges between the Trussell's - parents and children, but there were a few exchanges between them, me, and my parents.<br /><br />Then there was the afternoon together and then the food was uncovered for a second round of eating, which we did in stages. Then, some started to play a game that had been received for Christmas. Then, it was time for the goodnights and goodbyes.<br /><br />It was good to see the family gathered: Melissa, of course, came from Atlanta; Joy and Andrew had come from Ft. Worth, Texas (they had arrived earlier to celebrate birthdays and their 1st Anniversary with Kenny and Carol and with his parents); and April and Tim had come in from Boston, Massachusetts.<br /><br />Joy and Andrew left the next day. They had to return, I believe for a job interview. The rest of us were able to gather Friday evening for another meal at a local restaurant.<br /><br />It was good to see you all.<br /><br />Since Donna and I did not regularly spend Christmas with my folks, there were not so many memories, other than last year when we were all there, but sick.<br /><br />I was able to share some of Donna's nice purses with the ladies of the family and that was good. Me, I got a robe, lounging pants and a shirt, cashews, candy, pants, a tie, a donation with thoughts of Donna and I, and a toaster oven.<br /><br />Thanks all! God's blessings on each in your endeavors this coming year!<br /><br />Richard/Uncle RichardRSDicksonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15226921821180759333noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17900703.post-59327877853389667462008-12-29T18:00:00.001-05:002008-12-29T18:03:02.801-05:00Her BirthdayFor weeks I had contemplated the observance of Donna's birthday. What could I do that would both help me through the day and, at the same time, give proper celebration to her life?<br /><br />Someone suggested taking the largest picture that I had of her and sitting with it before me as I thought about her. Immediately I thought...NOT!<br /><br />One thing that she did enjoy on her special days (birthday and anniversary) was going out to eat. This year, as for several years, the Versaille at Chateau Elan was not a practical solution.<br /><br />So the obvious was sushi. She loved sushi and anytime was a good occasion for it.<br /><br />I issued the invitation to those who would like to join me in a celebration of Donna's life to meet me at RuSans in Athens, Georgia. Of course, December 18 was a Thursday, making it difficult for some. Others had there own celebrations: birthday and Christmas parties already scheduled. Some just don't care for sushi or Japanese cuisine. But, we assembled, all who could and all who would. The size of the party was actually just a perfect size for a celebration of this type.<br /><br />Thank you to Charles and Allie, Charles and Gwen, and Claire for making the day special. May God's light graciously shine on you for your kindness. And, the fact, that you enjoyed the food was a great benefit.<br /><br />Thanks and blessings,<br />RichardRSDicksonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15226921821180759333noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17900703.post-36880283376118734132008-11-28T16:42:00.000-05:002008-11-28T16:43:05.427-05:00Thanksgiving 2008Well, the first of the major events without Donna has passed.<br /><br />Originally, I had planned to be in Virginia for Thanksgiving. The cemetery had indicated that the grave marker would be in place in 6-8 weeks - I thought after the burial. However, I discovered that they meant after payment. So, hopefully, there will be a marker by Christmas - perhaps.<br /><br />I suppose it was better this way. By coming to my parents for Thanksgiving, there were several advantages.<br /><br />One, I had contracted some type of throat virus - that's what the doc called it. Even with a shot on Tuesday, I am still dealing with the effects of a sore throat (much less today) and stuffed-up head. Better here than on a 5-hour road trip.<br /><br />Two, since Donna and I had rarely come to my parents for Thanksgiving, there were few memories to deal with, especially as my sister was the actual host for the Thanksgiving meal at her house.<br /><br />There have been moments, as there have been the past 2 months (already, it's almost 2 months since the accident), but all in all, we have made it just fine this holiday season.<br /><br />Now, there remains her birthday (December 18), Christmas, our anniversary (January 21) - it would have been 26 years, and Valentines. By God's grace, I anticipate that we will be sustained and make it through these events as well.<br /><br /><em>Dear God,<br />Thank you for Your own goodness, grace, and mercy.<br />Thank you for Donna and our more than 25 years together.<br />Thank you for family and friends who love and support.<br />Thank you for Jesus and His great sacrifice.<br />Amen!</em><br /><br />God is VERY good!<br />RichardRSDicksonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15226921821180759333noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17900703.post-760695848741221222008-10-11T23:22:00.001-04:002008-10-11T23:23:51.149-04:00LonelyToday, my parents returned to their home. I turned, walked into the house with Abby, and said to her something like, "Now we're on our own." And it was a sad moment.<br /><br />Wednesday, October 1, life changed drastically...Donna was killed in a one-car accident. Immediately there was the rush of others to help. The sheriff and a local pastor who took me to the hospital to see her; the myriads of people who came to make my house presentable to those who would drop by; my niece, parents, and sister and brother-in-law appearing. There was the need to find Abby (she was with her "mother" at the time of the accident and ended up spending the night in the woods).<br /><br />Then, we moved to the funeral home to make arrangements. Next was the visitation on Friday and the funeral service on Saturday. Then on Sunday, we left for Virginia for a graveside service and burial on Tuesday with the need to go on Monday and finalize arrangements with the cemetery.<br /><br />Next was the trip home on Wednesday and the need to start going through Donna's things.<br /><br />Today, my parents returned to their home...and now here with Abby...<br /><br />I feel lonely!<br /><br />RichardRSDicksonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15226921821180759333noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17900703.post-88669783757627078902008-06-21T15:00:00.000-04:002008-06-21T15:00:17.107-04:00DandelionsDandy Lions<br />Dan duh Lie ons<br />Dan dell eeons<br /><br />Interesting word combos, but I digress (yes, I started by digressing).<br /><br />Last week, I cut the grass.<br /><br />Actually, to be more precise, I cut the dandelions.<br /><br />It was actually fairly easy as there had not been much rain, so the real grass had not grown (often as high as a foot or so before I get it cut). And nothing was bloated with nectar/grass sap/whatever it's called.<br /><br />Dandelion flowers are actually very pretty. I love the yellow color. And the white puffballs are pretty as well, although much unwanted because of their readiness and willingness to float out and create another 'child' at the smallest breathe. (As to the leaves, not so much.)<br /><br />I guess a lesson is obvious here. The beauty of the flower hides the danger.<br /><br />(Wow! More digression!)<br /><br />Anyhow, as I cut the 'grass' and pondered the predominance of dandelions and their ability to flourish with so little water, a thought occured to me:<br /><br />If the folk in hell were to sweat, I bet dandelions would grow there!<br /><br />Blessings,<br />RichardRSDicksonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15226921821180759333noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17900703.post-68961608653916256872008-06-05T18:57:00.002-04:002008-06-05T20:18:09.203-04:00A Skunk, a Retractable Leash, and GodAs you will know if you have visited my website (<a href="http://www.dicksonhome.net">DicksonHome.net</a>) we have a miniature Schnauzer named Abby. Actually, she has her own webpage, <a href="http://www.dicksonhome.net/abby.html">click here</a> to view it.<br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiBNOMlb_2BSWKX4xpsB7aeDebbL2m30nnM6J4ZINzpUkGaYa00LCbeIkeuk3P1fGAAcaJ90u9ONMDUhNtTswSuK4Dxp03CVGtlW1FkUKmOtbaRay63d0IG9SV0GYeIk7ELUGEODA/s1600-h/Abby1.jpg"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiBNOMlb_2BSWKX4xpsB7aeDebbL2m30nnM6J4ZINzpUkGaYa00LCbeIkeuk3P1fGAAcaJ90u9ONMDUhNtTswSuK4Dxp03CVGtlW1FkUKmOtbaRay63d0IG9SV0GYeIk7ELUGEODA/s200/Abby1.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5208529374783596514" /></a> One of my jobs each night is to go outside with Abby so she can take care of "business."<br /><br />This past Tuesday night as we went outside, Abby discovered something she thought interesting and took off running into the lot next door. I did see her do a quick jump, spin, etc., but didn't think much of it. She did more running and some barking, but these are all fairly usual for her.<br /><br />As we continued our journey around the house, I noticed an odor in the air. Well, in our neck of the woods, "that odor" is one thing - a skunk. But, then again, that is not unusual either.<br /><br />We continued our journey and went inside the house. The odor persisted in the house, but that also is not unusual when the smell is strong outside. However, I did wonder and I bent down to smell Abby. Well, it had been some time since her last bath so she didn't smell pretty, but nothing stung my nose, so I didn't think more of it.<br /><br />Then, we went into the bedroom, where Donna commented on the smell and how strong it was. OK, short story long, Abby HAD got it, at least some of it - enough to make her unpleasant to be around. So, Donna sprayed her with some "smell better" stuff and lit a Yankee Candle tart.<br /><br />Well, Wednesday came and I went to work. Later in the day, Donna revealed that she couldn't take it any longer and had given Abby a bath - actually 2 baths.<br /><br />So, when I got home (and she did smell much better when she greeted me at the door), it was again time for me to do the nightly honors. However, with "the odor" already present in the air outside, I knew we didn't want to risk the previous night's adventure with a clean Abby.<br /><br />Out came the halter and retractable leash and then the trip outside.<br /><br />Abby, of course, wanted to explore so I willingly went with her, but in those areas (especially along the back fence) that I wasn't sure about I held the leash so that she could not enter those areas.<br /><br />Our retractable leash allows about a 15 foot distance from "holder" to "restrainee" so Abby had a circle with about a 30 foot diameter that she was FREE to roam, and I was moving so this circle was constantly being expanded for her. However, she generally stayed at the far end of the restraint and wanted more.<br /><br />Then, I thought about God!<br /><br />There is a continuing struggle in theological circles about God's sovereignty and human freedom.<br /><br />I did wonder if God's sovereignty might not somehow be like that retractable leash. He is in control. As His child, He puts restraints on my life, both for my protection and for His glory. Yet, He willingly lets me to wander and explore "freely" as long as I stay within the realm of what He allows. Of course, I often push to the end of the restraint and want more freedom, but God knows what is best and so He lovingly holds the leash steady and keeps me from the danger that I would so readily get into.<br /><br />Hmmm...a skunk, a retractable leash, and God...<br /><br />I wonder!<br /><br />Blessings,<br />RichardRSDicksonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15226921821180759333noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17900703.post-17807032404355596502008-05-12T18:17:00.000-04:002008-05-12T18:17:38.857-04:00It Was a MiracleIt was nothing short of at least a minor miracle, if not a major miracle - Donna was able to be in church with me this past Sunday, May 11.<br /><br />First, there is the pain that she lives with. On Saturday, Sunday attendance was looking doubtful as she experienced pain, discomfort, the effects of medicine, whatever.<br /><br />Second, there is the hurt that she has experienced, even those things one runs across in a new church that bring up old wounds that are not yet healed.<br /><br />Third, it was Mother's Day - a day full of pain for one who has so wanted to experience motherhood and has been denied, as well as a reminder of the loss of her mother just before Mother's Day several years ago.<br /><br />But, there she was, struggling at times to get ready so early in the morning, but walking out the door and getting in the car to travel the distance.<br /><br />There she was, seated at the piano, taking part in worship leadership through 2 services.<br /><br />There she was, on the pew beside me, crying through the sermon as she thought of her mom and the child she would never have.<br /><br />The service was made easier by the fact that there were no babies to dedicate and no special recognition of those who WERE mothers (as opposed to those who WERE NOT mothers).<br /><br />There were roses in the big pot at the front given to support the American Cancer Society's Walk for Life (now a cause for Donna as a survivor of melanoma), one which honored her and another which honored the memory of her mother.<br /><br />So, as we sang the Doxology, her own voice raised in song and praise, I give praise to God for this, for ...<br /><br />It was a miracle!<br /><br />Blessings,<br />RichardRSDicksonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15226921821180759333noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17900703.post-23722399728133203162008-05-09T18:26:00.000-04:002008-05-09T18:26:29.586-04:00Check It OutBesides encouraging you to check out my other blog Music Musings, where my posting is more frequent than here, I would like for you to check out DicksonHome.net.<br /><br />I have added links to Top New Stories and a Today in History section so that it is not the same thing everytime you go to my website.<br /><br />Thanks so much and ...<br /><br />Blessings,<br />RichardRSDicksonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15226921821180759333noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17900703.post-20563975267410729722008-05-04T23:18:00.000-04:002008-05-04T23:18:34.021-04:00A Basic Christian LibraryWhat are some of the books that one might find in a basic Christian library?<br /><br />I have posted some recommendations with links for your consideration.<br /><br />There are Bibles, reference books, and devotional books. I also included a link to "The Chronicles of Narnia" since there is much interest in the movie "Prince Caspian" that is coming out in theatres.<br /><br />It is a long page with a lot of information, but I hope it will prove helpful.<br /><br />You can find my recommendations on my website, <a href="http://www.dicksonhome.net">Dickson Home</a>, by clicking <a href="http://dicksonhome.net">here</a> or on the link on the sidebar and then clicking on the menu link to "Recommended Reading."<br /><br />Blessings,<br />Richard<br /><br />(Note: this is a duplicate of the post on Music Musings.)RSDicksonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15226921821180759333noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17900703.post-11204520831783698022008-04-21T22:14:00.003-04:002008-04-25T19:54:00.098-04:00Rebecca St. James EmbarrassedAt least she ought to be!<br /><br />I usually listen to Contemporary Christian Music as I travel to and from work each day. I generally like the style and it helps keep me awake. Therefore, I don't consider myself a classical prude when it comes to this style of music.<br /><br />However, I often wonder what the musicians and producers are thinking. Don't they ever actually listen to this stuff they are putting out.<br /><br />How much longer do we have to listen to lyrics like "My-ee," "ho-lay," and "I ador-a-(breath sound)ore" (just say it and you'll understand that last one)? Even with the stylistic nature of contemporary music, singers ought to at the least be able to pronounce the words correctly! Some actually do!<br /><br />This is Christian music - at least that is what we call it. If it is Christian shouldn't it be our best. It should definitely be better than what the world offers.<br /><br />So, back to Rebecca St. James embarrassment. Frequently in the last few days, I have heard her rendition of the song "Breathe" - which I associate with Michael W. Smith. Maybe she was trying to catch the feeling of the title, but it throws me everytime she sings, "I-hi" - I have to say, "Hi" back. Then there is all of the air sucking sounds.<br /><br />Let see if I can approximate what I hear:<br /><br />"And I-high canuh live withou yooo (suck air)."<br /><br />If the instrumentalists on the recording had been so sloppy, I feel they would have been fired. Where was the producer and what was he actually listening for? He should have been fired. And Rebecca St. James, well, she should be embarrassed. She has been in the business long enough to know better.<br /><br />Come on Christian musicians/vocalists...be better. You can do it, and I feel sure that our Lord would be very appreciative of the extra effort.<br /><br />Blessings,<br />RichardRSDicksonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15226921821180759333noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17900703.post-65604420026545786022008-04-08T21:47:00.000-04:002008-04-08T21:47:42.774-04:00DicksonHomeFor those who have not done so already, I wanted to invite my readers to visit my webpages: <a href="http://www.dicksonhome.net">DicksonHome.net</a>. They can be reached by clicking the link in the sidebar or by clicking <a href="http://www.dicksonhome.net">here</a>.<br /><br />You will find pages about "our girls," as well as sermon notes, and who knows what else. Feel free to browse around. Some of the content may not be recent, but you will certainly find out a little more about us in the process.<br /><br />Blessings,<br />RichardRSDicksonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15226921821180759333noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17900703.post-91085775514543594562008-03-23T22:33:00.000-04:002008-03-23T22:33:35.668-04:00VERY GOOD NEWSDear Reader,<br /><br />It is Easter Sunday and we have once again celebrated the resurrection of our Lord. I would be remis to not wish you all a very Happy and Joyous Easter.<br /><br />One of my great joys is to announce the good news on Easter Sunday. I had that opportunity once again this year in our sunrise service. So once again before the clock tells us that another Easter Sunday has passed let's say it again.<br /><br />Christ is risen! - He is risen indeed!<br />CHRIST IS RISEN! - HE IS RISEN INDEED!<br /><strong>CHRIST IS RISEN! - HE IS RISEN INDEED!</strong><br /><br />And that my dear readers is VERY GOOD NEWS!<br /><br />Blessings,<br />RichardRSDicksonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15226921821180759333noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17900703.post-67026726803297539712008-03-16T20:44:00.001-04:002008-03-16T20:47:12.654-04:00Music MusingsI appreciate so much those of you who read these rambling thoughts even though the postings are few and far between. Please understand that I will continue to post here from time to time as my rambling strikes, but ...<br /><br />For those who are interested, I have started another blog which I have been adding to basically on a weekly basis. It has to do more particularly with the church I am currently serving and the music program that I lead there.<br /><br />I have posting thoughts on the Lenten season scripture readings and how they, the sermon, and the choral music selection relate to the church's Lenten theme. Readers may find it interesting.<br /><br />The blog is called Music Musings. You can access it at <a href="http://musicmusings-rsd.blogspot.com">musicmusings-rsd.blogspot.com</a> or by clicking the link in the column to the right.<br /><br />Thank you again for your support.<br />RichardRSDicksonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15226921821180759333noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17900703.post-26461431802255238382008-01-20T21:50:00.000-05:002008-01-20T21:51:21.432-05:00Best Laid Plans -or- Happy 25thWell, it has been an interesting week, actually an interesting couple of weeks.<br /><br />Friday, a week ago, ended with the Sons of Jubal Annual Retreat which this year involved an intense 2-day recording session. It was good, actually better than I thought it would be, but that's not the point of this story.<br /><br />However, it, in part, helped lead up to an emotionally draining start to this past week. And this week ended, shall we say, very interestingly. Remember those best laid plans.<br /><br />Ten years ago, Donna and I celebrated our 15th Wedding Anniversary with a small ceremony. I guess I should mention that Donna loves weddings. However, I asked if she could hold off on the big ceremony until our 25th. Well, she started them with the planning and preparations. She dreamed and planned and dreamed and planned and then dreamed some more. Along the way, the dreams changed or grew or whatever.<br /><br />But, this past week, it caught up with us - the time arrived.<br /><br />We had scheduled the big event for this past Friday, January 18th, at 7:00 p.m. A couple of years ago, while members at First Baptist Church, Toccoa, she had planned on having the ceremony in the new chapel, but with the new position at First Baptist Church, Jefferson, GA, one of those changes of plans happened and we scheduled it for that sanctuary with help and participation from members of our "new" church.<br /><br />Then the week arrived and all was not done. Those last minute details got to be longer and out of hand. There was the rush to get it all done, but Donna was not physically or emotionally up to the task. She was simply worn out. Oh, she worked hard for the last two days with her friend Wanda helping out, but it was simply impossible to get it all done. Then there was the mad rush to get out of the house and on to Jefferson and the church. And, of course, in the rush, items - special items with a special place in the ceremony - were left at home (and with a 45 minute drive, were impossible to retrieve). We did remember some things like the plates and cups for the reception and we arranged for Wanda's husband to go by the house and pick up them up, but there were those other things that were not remembered until it was too late.<br /><br />Donna was greatly saddened that all was not as she had dreamed it would be. Ten years of dreams altered by the last minute rush and the slipping of time.<br /><br />For my part, small as it was, I thought it turned out well and Donna, well, she was more gourgeous than I remembered having seen her. Did I mention that she had gotten the wedding dress of her dreams (actually several years ago and at I price that even I thought was a bargain)?<br /><br />Then after the ceremony, the reception, the photographs, and the clean-up, we were able to get away for our special weekend. We had planned a weekend in Atlanta visiting a few places that Donna wanted to go but for that first night, we rested. It was good, then we awoke to the promise of snow.<br /><br />Now, you have to understand that Donna (and I) love snow, but now with the snow, more of Donna's carefully crafted plans were slipping (literally/figuratively??) away. So, with regrets we canceled our Saturday night stay, packed up, and headed home. Of course, this morning we learned that the snow was not nearly as bad as had been predicted and we probably could have continued with most of our plans (the zoo may not have worked out as the temperatures were very cold and it closes under those circumstances).<br /><br />So ... what can we learn from this?<br /><br />1. Life doesn't always go as we expect or plan. Sometimes we actually do have to just go with the flow and make the best of what we are handed.<br /><br />2. The sweet is not in the details, but in the relationships. The details didn't match the dreams, but Donna and I did, in fact, before witnesses re-affirm our love for and commitment to each other. And, those who attended didn't seem to mind (or notice) that the topper for the groom's cake was missing - the one with the bride fishing for the groom - if you haven't heard that story yet, just ask me sometime when you see me.<br /><br />3. God is still good. I can't pass up this opportunity. If you haven't guessed, this is a recurring theme.<br /><br />So, now what are my plans?<br /><br />Well, now I plan to try to take my bride to the zoo, the aquarium, and the world of Coke, but it probably won't be tomorrow and probably not all in one trip. I also plan to make up that second night away at some point, but probably not next weekend. And, my original plan is still in place - I plan to take my bride, on our anniversary, January 21 out to eat her favorite meal - sushi.<br /><br />Who knows, even my plans may get changed, but love and commitment remain, not affected by changes in plans or dreams.<br /><br />Donna, I love you! Happy 25th Wedding Anniversary!<br /><br />RichardRSDicksonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15226921821180759333noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17900703.post-17251264070312091692007-07-28T22:29:00.000-04:002007-07-28T23:19:28.633-04:00Feeling Old, Vulnerable, & Very GratefulYou know how older folks often talk about young folks (teenagers usually) and how they seem to believe that "it will NEVER happen to them," therefore they do some of the craziest things. Well, today I feel like a teenager with a wake-up call.<br /><br />I had the opportunity this week to attend Church Music Georgia 2007, sponsored by the <a href="http://www.gabaptist.org/">Georgia Baptist Convention</a> Music and Worship Department. It was very good. I especially enjoyed the sessions with Dr. Bill Green. I also had the opportunity to stay with my Uncle Billy and Aunt Tootsie overnight - thank you so much!!<br /><br />On the way home today, I had to stop by my new church (sorry I haven't blogged about this, but I start at <a href="http://www.fbcjefferson.org/">First Baptist Church, Jefferson, GA </a>this coming Wednesday, August 1 - a very special day for those in the know) to pull some anthems to begin preparation for my first rehearsal with them. OK, if you don't know, it's my B-day - happy, happy! I have wondered today if I was going to make it. Anyway, I digress ...<br /><br />Well, when I left the church, I came through Commerce and got on the Interstate. As I traveled, the rain got heavier and heavier - so heavy in fact, that I actually thought it prudent to begin to slow down. Obviously not soon enough ...<br /><br />I hit some heavy water on a bridge and the car started going in a direction I hadn't intended. Up until now, I actually thought I was a pretty good driver. I did think to start trying to turn the steering wheel in the opposite direction, but my car and the water on the road had some strange ideas. First, I saw the guardrail on the right beginning to move closer to the car, then we suddenly shifted away, and I think I was looking back down the road I had just been out of my side window, then the median showed up and my car just headed down in the ditch and up the otherside toward the rails shielding the on-coming traffic. Of course, the car by this time was now facing in the opposite direction from which it had started, and just as the rail was looming up ... the car stopped.<br /><br />The engine was still running, the lights were still on, the windshield wipers were still flapping their merry little tune, and the rain was pouring down.<br /><br />And, I sat there.<br /><br />OK, the airbags didn't deploy. No other cars were involved. I hadn't flipped like the vehicle we had seen a few months back (<a href="http://rsdickson.blogspot.com/2007_05_01_archive.html">see prevous blog - God's Timing</a>). I thought to turn the engine off. I knew I needed to get out and check for damage, but I sure didn't want to get out in that rain.<br /><br />And what had been going through my mind? No, I don't believe I thought of imminent death. I thought "this is my best car" and "I wonder if the new tires are ruined" and "I thought I could drive better than that!"<br /><br />So what did I do? I called Donna (of course, she decided that I needed her to come be with me) and then I called 911 (I supposed I needed a report in case there was any damage to the car). I did, finally, grab the umbrella in the car (of course, it was a small one) and get out to examine the exterior of the car. It actually looked fine. No apparent damage to the body and the tires were still intact and inflated - minus one screw-on valve stem cap. So ... the very wet me got back in the car to wait - for the sheriff and for Donna.<br /><br />Well, the deputy finally arrived and make a visual inspection (very much like mine and with the same results). When he asked about a tow, I suggested - I had already thought about it, but decided I should stay put for the report - that I first trying driving out, if the car was driveable. It was and I had no problem going back through the ditch and with a little assistance watching for on-coming traffic, I was able to turn around and head back up the road.<br /><br />I did begin "to hear" sounds so I did stop a couple of times to check them out, but didn't see anything out of the ordinary. I will have to make some decision about having it checked out for damage I couldn't see, but that's not for today. And, I did make it home. Donna also finally caught up with me at home.<br /><br />So, now, let's review. I survived. The car survived and still looks good except for all the extra grass. I didn't flip - excellent. I didn't hit any of the impending guardrails - also excellent. There were no other cars involved - hallelujah - in fact, not one even stopped to check on me. The car was still driveable. I learned a very valuable lesson or two (or three).<br /><br />So, now I feel older (even before B-day arrives) and I feel more vulnerable and ...<br /><br />I feel very, very grateful. Whether there were angels pushing/pulling my car away from guardrails, holding off other traffic, holding the top to keep it from flipping, or if it was just God's gracious hand of mercy in a situation that could have been much more tragic, I am very grateful for the goodness He showed to me.<br /><br />Thanks be to God for His matchless riches of mercy and grace to me!!RSDicksonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15226921821180759333noreply@blogger.com0